How to stay optimistic
Why must remain optimistic?
Sometimes, on the way, a good way to business success, career, or whatever, we are faced with situations that make us pessimistic. For example, when you are running a business, in front of you there are no barriers or obstacles that seemed insurmountable. Yeah, like when you meet a dead end.
What did the pessimists? He will stop. "What now?" He said. So, he will certainly fail to achieve what he wants. He stopped and the cause of the surrender because he already pessimistic beforehand.
In contrast to the optimistic, he will not give up until he succeeded. Do not we often hear or read stories of great people who do the impossible? He would not do something that is "not possible" unless he has the optimism that he can handle it.
The trick Could Be Not Visible
Could be, a solution or a way to overcome that barrier yet to be seen. You did not know, so it is not unthinkable. But, this does not mean there is no solution. No or berlihat NOT mean nothing.
Rest assured that the solution is there, it's just that you have not found it. If you've been saying from the beginning is not there, then you will never look for it. However, if you believe there is, you just need the effort to find it.
So, the first way to remain optimistic is assured that the solution is there, just not yet known, has not been found, and your job to look for it.
Different level
There is an analogy. For example you left behind by others. Why behind? Because you are using a bike, while your competitors are using the car. If you are trying to catch him with the bike, no matter how hard you pedal, you will never pursue it.
Why? Because the level of speed bike with a different car. You get a problem for cycling, if you are trying to cope with the fixed cycling, you will not get a solution. Then, how? Try to get a car.
If you are currently facing obstacles as you thought insurmountable, meaning that the level of thinking or your ability is different (lower) than the obstacle in front of you. That is, you should try to raise the level of yourself, a good way of thinking, knowledge, or skills.
So do not be pessimistic yet, remains optimistic. You only need to increase the level of your skills first in order to overcome the problem. This is the second way.
For example, would a business but confused a capital gain? That's because you have not been able to obtain capital. This means that you need to improve in order to raise capital.
make Stairs
If you have to go straight up to a height of 3 meters, what you should do. Do you have to jump? It is impossible not? The solution is simple, find or make a ladder so that you can ride.
If you meet with an obstacle, it seems impossible to overcome, you may need a "ladder". The ladder can be a tool, it could be a method, it could be a new science.
If you can not do anything, can you you need tools, requiring different methods to do so, or the new science that has not have.
So, do not be pessimistic, but make the effort to find or create the stairs.
Plenty Road to Mecca
If you meet a dead end, whether it could be a reason for pessimism? No. Why? Because there are many other roads. Look the other way, it is not possible to a place there's only one way. The road is still a lot, look.
Whatever your activity, if you have trouble, do not be pessimistic yet. Think of another way, another way, another method, another moment, another strategy, another tack, and so forth. Do not stop with the way you've been using, because there are many other avenues if you want to find.
tear down the Wall
I'm not saying should always knock down the wall. It is not always possible. But it could be that you should not and can knock down the wall.
It could be, a barrier in front of you that no man's land. It may be that it must be broken down, it's just that no one has to do it.
Do not always assume you are forbidden to knock down the wall. Find out, it could be actually okay. Moreover, if the barrier it's own, it's up to you like broken or not. Had that goal is more important, then tear down the course.
In many cases, a barrier that comes from yourself. This means that the barriers are yours alone even you are making. Robohkan only, then the open road in front of you.
You know what is this barrier? Reason. Then destroy your reason, the road will open.
Conclusion
So you do not easily pessimistic, before you give up when obstacles are insurmountable, then try to think of five in this way. Look how it could be yet to be seen. The second way, increase your ability, because it required a higher ability to snag heavier.
The third way, try thinking maybe you need help tools, methods, or new science in the face of obstruction. The fourth way, have you thought of looking the other way? And the fifth way, can not be guaranteed, but you need to consider, tear down or destroy the barrier (reason) that is in front of you.
You've got five weapons that will make you more optimistic, although the barrier in front of you seems impossible to overcome.
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